Tea at dawn, banquet at night.
Both families get every photo.
You are the couple, and your parents are hosting alongside you. The day starts before dawn with the bridesmaids' door games, moves to the tea ceremony where you kneel and serve tea to parents and grandparents in order of seniority, and ends at a banquet of many courses and a great deal of toasting. The photographer follows you. The two families, in two homes and then at the hall, are photographing everything else.
The moments guests actually photograph at Chinese tea ceremonies
Why Chinese tea ceremonies work better on Picsui
Written for the person hosting this one, and checked against what the product actually does.
Delivered to both families
The tea ceremony happens in the parents' homes, and in many families it is the parents, not the couple, who will look at these photos most. Name a parent on each side as a recipient and the finished gallery is emailed to both households on the date you choose, on a private link that works without an account.
Morning, ceremony and banquet in one gallery
The door games at the bride's home, the tea ceremony, and the evening banquet at the restaurant are three settings with three sets of people. Set them up as sub-events under one code and each part of the day stays grouped, so the morning photos are easy to find and the banquet ones do not swamp them.
The elders' words, kept with the photos
When a grandparent receives tea they often say a few sentences of blessing to the couple, and it goes unrecorded because everyone is watching the cups and the red envelopes. A relative can record it from the upload page, up to 60 seconds of audio, and it sits in the gallery beside the photo of that moment.
Deliver the finished gallery to someone else
Name a recipient and the completed gallery is emailed to them on a private link on the date you choose. They browse and download without an account.
Several days, one gallery
Multi-day celebrations get sub-events under one code, so the rehearsal, the ceremony and the brunch stay organised but reachable from a single link.
Voice messages
Guests record up to 60 seconds of audio right from the upload page — a blessing, a toast, a story — saved next to the photos in the same gallery.
No app. No account. One scan.
Guests point their camera at a QR code and are uploading in seconds. Nobody installs anything, nobody creates a login, and the grandparents can do it as easily as the teenagers.
You approve before anyone sees
Turn on host review and every upload waits in your queue until you approve it. AI screening flags anything questionable so you are not scrolling through hundreds of photos at midnight.
Full-resolution downloads
Download any photo, or the whole event as one archive, at original quality. What guests uploaded is what you keep — no compression, no watermark on paid events.
How it works
Set up in a minute. Collect for the whole event.
Create the wedding and add the morning at each home and the banquet as sub-events, so the day is grouped from the start.
Send the link to both families the night before; there is no time in the morning to hand anyone a card. Print the QR code for the banquet tables.
Cousins and siblings upload through the door games and the tea ceremony. At the banquet the code on the tables takes over.
Name a parent on each side as recipients, and the finished gallery is emailed to both homes on the date you choose.
Try uploading as a guest.
Scan this with your phone the way a guest at your event would. Choose a sample photo and upload it from your browser, then open the demo gallery to see it land.
- Scan the code with your phone camera — it opens straight in the browser.
- Upload a sample photo. Look for the upload confirmation so you know it reached the host.
Use a sample you are comfortable sharing with Picsui. Please keep personal or sensitive photos out of the demo.
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This is the same kind of code your guests scan at your event.
Getting the most from Chinese tea ceremonies
The morning is where the photos scatter most, and it is over by lunch. The door games at the bride's home involve the bridesmaids, the groomsmen and a lot of shouting, then the tea ceremony moves through relatives in order of seniority, sometimes at two homes in a row. The photographer follows the couple; the siblings and cousins at each house are the ones with the whole scene. Send them the link the night before, with a line asking for the videos of the door games in particular, since those are the clips the couple laughs at hardest and the ones nobody remembers to save. A shared link is easier than collecting from six phones a week later.
Ask one relative to record the elders at the tea ceremony. The blessing a grandparent gives when handed the cup, in whichever language they speak, is usually the only recording of their voice a family has from the day, and it is the part of the gallery parents return to. A voice message from the upload page, up to 60 seconds, or a video message up to 30 seconds, keeps it with the photos of that moment instead of lost in someone's camera roll. Choose someone who is not serving tea or handing over red envelopes, and tell them the evening before so they are standing in the right place.
At the banquet, put the code on the table with the menu and mention it when the couple begins the table toasts. The couple visits every table, changes outfits at least once, and the guests at each table take group photos with them that the photographer, walking behind, rarely gets straight on. Those table photos are what both families want most and they live on a hundred phones. A note on the table card, and a screen playing the gallery near the stage, gets most of them uploaded before the last course, and host review lets a sibling approve them between dishes so the screen only shows the good ones.
Common questions about Chinese tea ceremonies
The tea ceremony is at home in the morning and the banquet is at a restaurant. Is that one event or two?
One event. Create the wedding and add the morning and the banquet as sub-events under it. The same link works at both homes and the same QR code goes on the banquet tables, but uploads are grouped by sub-event so the tea ceremony photos sit together and the banquet does not bury them. Because the morning is family only and the banquet is everyone, you can give the banquet a separate guest list within the same event. Afterward there is one gallery, one review queue and one link to send, and both sets of parents receive the same thing.
Can the gallery go to both families?
Yes. Recipient delivery lets you enter more than one email address, so you can name a parent on each side and both receive the finished gallery on the date you choose, on a private link that opens in a browser with no account. They can browse and download the originals at full resolution. This is useful when the two families live in different cities or countries, and when the parents are the ones who want printed-quality copies of the tea ceremony photos for the people who were not there. You can send the same link to anyone else yourself.
Our grandparents do not use apps. Can they still take part?
There is no app. A guest points the phone camera at the QR code, or taps a link, and the upload page opens in the browser with one large button. A grandchild can hand a grandparent a phone and they will manage it, and more often a cousin uploads on their behalf. The guest page is offered in English, Español, Français, chosen from the phone's own settings; it is not yet available in Chinese, so for elders who read only Chinese, the practical answer is a younger relative doing the uploading and the elders enjoying the gallery on the screen at the banquet.
How much does it cost for the tea ceremony and the banquet together?
One Event Pass at $29, paid once, covers the wedding and all of its sub-events, so the morning at each home and the banquet in the evening are one purchase. It includes unlimited uploads with a fair-use bound of 25 GB, host review, full-resolution downloads, recipient delivery and 365 days of hosting. There is no subscription and nothing charged per table or per guest, which matters when the banquet runs to thirty tables. If family overseas want to watch the tea ceremony live, Live Pass is a separate $39 one-time add-on.
Is the gallery private? The red envelopes and the family homes are not for everyone.
The gallery is private by default and only reachable by the link or code you share; it is not listed on the site and guest pages are blocked from search engines and AI crawlers. Photos taken inside the parents' homes are not going anywhere you did not send them. With host review switched on, every upload waits for approval before other guests can see it, so a sibling can hold back the photo of the envelopes being counted while approving the one of grandmother receiving her tea. You can close the gallery to new uploads once the banquet ends.
Every photo from Chinese tea ceremonies, in one place
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